Heaven vs Hell

      星期五办理了离职手续，意味着即将离开这个可爱的地方，离开这群可爱的人们。实习的6个多月着实让我改变许多，从怎么做事到怎么做人。小到复印传真这样的小事，大到marine的理赔流程，接触的东西还真是不少。当然，更大的收获是soft skill的培养。

       实习生一般并不允许接触公司的core operation system ，所以做的事情比较边缘。不过这些看似不起眼的小事也是非常锻炼人的。试想，一个人叫你复印N个东西，一个人叫你扫描，单做的话是比较简单。但是如果10个人呢？把文件存在不同人的folder，存不同的文件名。简单的事情多起来也就变得不那么简单。有时候挺BS那些抱怨实习的事情太小，无聊的人，对于staff来说，自己的事情本来就很多，不可能把自己的事情交给实习生。万一实习生做错了，staff要承担全部责任。而如果你对交给你的那些小事不屑一顾，人家又拿什么来评价你的能力呢。每个工作的高准确率能够给你的supervisor一个全新的印象，让他知道你是可以依赖的，你是有能力的。之后便会有一些高级的东西给你做（甚至会给你staff的权限叫你做事，此时更需要细心、认真）。

       soft skill不像那些业务能力那么容易提高，有时候更加考验你的观察能力。实习本来就是一个接触社会的过程，社会是个大熔炉，如果你不能融入其中，自然会被社会所淘汰。自己找的实习，没有所谓的关系支撑，所有的人际关系必须依靠自己的努力来培养。外企一般没有特别复杂的人际关系，相处都还算和谐。毕竟我也木有那么多的经验，自己认为也只有多观察，多学习才能真正在这方面有所提高。

       离开AIU，只是人生中的一个事件而已。未来还有很多挑战等着自己，best of luck！

今天是她两周年祭日，重温了她那首经典的《不要认输》

从中得到了不少启发

记住她的名字        坂井泉水

一张翻唱专辑，听了心情无比的平静

很多老歌，重新的演绎让它们又重新焕发光彩

两个声音的完美融合

忘却了生活的繁杂

留在心中的，只是音乐

看这部片子的时候正是清明前夕， 也算比较符合这个氛围。电影不可避免的会涉及到死亡、丧葬事宜等一些为我们现在的人所避讳的题材，而影片从一个从业者的角度来传达、改变社会对于生死的看法，着实下了不少功夫。

日本影片并不像欧美那样用强大的视觉冲击来吸引大众的眼球，更多的是通过演员、台词等一些的细节之处来表达自己的想法，获得观众的认同。从某种程度上说，思维想法更加委婉、细致。

人总有一死，谁也逃避不了

重要的是，在人生的漫漫长路中留下点什么

你做了，你努力了

一生无悔   

For men

--Regular shirts with collar and buttons. Polo shirts are not considered as regular shirts although they have collar and buttons.
--It is OK to wear a tie even on business casual day. If you are in Sales and you need to see customers, a shirt (long or short sleeves) with a tie is very appropriate for everyday.
--Shirts may be white or in color. In case of color shirts, the color should be light, such as light blue or beige.
It is OK to have color pattern such as stripes (条字) or check (格字) as long as they are thin and small. Bold stripes and large checks are inappropriate.
--Trousers may be in light or dark colors. Be careful when you choose light colors. Plain tones such as khaki (卡其) is OK. White, yellow, pink, etc are obviously not OK.
--Shirts and trousers must be ironed. Wrinkled shirts and/or trousers look very unprofessional.
--Leather shoes with or without laces are fine. Sport shoes, even made out of leather are inappropriate.
--Shoes should be in dark color, most likely black. Dark brown is also acceptable.
--Socks must coordinate with the shoes. Generally speaking, they should be plain black or plain dark brown depending on the color of the shoes.

For women

it is far more difficult for me to define what is appropriate. The following suggestions are by no means conclusive. I have to ask our female colleagues to use their common sense and good judgement. However, I would still like to provide some obvious guidelines as follows.

--Generally speaking tops with collars and sleeves (either long or short) are preferred.
--Long pants or skirts are fine as long as they are of proper length.
--Shorts, mid-length pants (七分裤), mini skirts are out of the question.
--Ornaments and accessories are certainly fine, but excessive use is discouraged.
--Jeans and pants with metal studs all over are not appropriate.
--Shoes should be appropriate for working environment. Sandals and dancing shoes are not appropriate.
--Excessive exposure of skin such as low cut blouses are not acceptable.